Hello. My name is Demicko – Meek, Meek for short. I’m a humble, kind and honest man with a heart made of love, respect and appreciate a strong woman who isn’t afraid of being herself regardless of what people may think, say, or do. Along such, it has been awhile since I’ve been in a relationship or have sought to be in a relationship, but for purposes of transparency, three years ago I met a woman who had been in an abusive relationship.
After learning what she had been through I felt compassion for her and wanted to see her feeling good about herself and life. Throughout our spending time getting to know one another, I became in-tune with her pain and sadness – praying with her, encouraging her, inspiring her, motivating her and supporting her – simply wanting to be a decent person and friend.
It seemed right, it felt right, and I wanted it to be right. So I put my mind and heart to investing into her wellbeing and happiness, never thinking “What if?”
Consequently, as her confidence, self-esteem and self-worth were re-stirred she started doing sneaky stuff and concealing things from me. Sensing something was going on, during a phone conversation I asked her “what’s going on with you?” She replied “it’s complicated.” Not knowing what she was talking about I asked “what are you talking about?” And she blotted out “I don’t want him, I want you.” Still unaware of what she was talking about I asked “who is he?” As it turned out she once again begun spending time with the guy who had been abusive. I couldn’t believe it!
Like a fool, being led by her emotions, I forgave her, bottling up my sadness and frustration. I stuck with her, as I truly didn’t want to give up un her. Why did I do that without thinking “what if?” As nothing changed, outside of her later informing me they were having sex, we had a respectful conversation and decided to remain just friends.
I shared that with you because we all make mistakes, and she was a good woman who just happened to make a mistake; I hope she’s doing well now. If you, like myself and others, have made mistakes in life or in a relationship, know that it’s not the end of the world and there are men like myself not looking to judge you, but who are looking to know you for the woman you are now. So extend your hello’s by way of JPay.com or write me directly or send me a message on this site and I’ll get back to you upon hearing from you. Take care.