In life there are no shortcuts to happiness. Anything that is worth pursuing is going to require us to suffer just a lil bit and this bit of suffering will add value to our relationship, making it so much more meaningful. I’m giving a piece of me to you in hopes of finding that happiness and lifetime memories with you.
Life isn’t about keeping score, it’s not about how many people call you, and it’s not about who you’ve dated or dating or haven’t dated at all. It isn’t about who you’ve kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It’s not about your shoes, or your hair, or the color of your skin, or where you live or go to school. In fact it’s not about grades, money, clothes, colleges that accept you or not. Life isn’t about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it’s not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn’t about how you feel about yourself, it’s about trust, happiness, and compassion. It’s about sticking up for your friends and replacing the inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It’s about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all it’s about choosing to use your life to touch someone else in a way that could never have been achieved.
I learned relationships of all kinds are like sand held in your hand; held loosely with an open hand the sand remains where it is, but the minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on the sand trickles through your fingers; you may hold on to some of it but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that, held loosely with respect and freedom for the other person it is likely to remain intact, but hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost. Fact’s some people come into my life and quickly go, some stay for a while and leave footprints on my heart, and I never been the same. All I ask is you don’t do the same.
I want to tell you a lil bit about me and my background. I’m 26 years old, I own my own Barber Shop for 10 years now, I’m serving 5 to 9 years for drugs and a gun. I come home in 2026. I have 3 beautiful kids, one girl and two boyz. I was in a very long relationship for seven years; we broke up because our love grew different. I had goals I wanted in life and she just could not support me mentally. I wish her the best but I need someone who can set goals ten years from now, and not just live day by day but push each other to better things.
I’m not on this website looking for a girlfriend or someone to send me money. I’m looking for a friend who is lonely. Married, single, whatever it is and in need of a person to be there for you mentally, because I need someone to help me with my thoughts and how I view things. I’m a very positive person. I grew up in the ghetto but please don’t look at my picture and think I’m ghetto because I’m actually very smart.
You can email me personally on CorrLinks.com or the CorrLinks mobile app. Type in my ID number (W114211;) my name will come up (Justin Russell); hit add and you’re ready to email me. If they ask for a state enter MA.
P.S. I really don’t like it if you leave a message here in my box. At the end of the week this website sends me a printout of the message you wrote me and by the time I get it a week passed by. If you leave only your email I have to mail my written response to the company to have it scanned and emailed to you. That adds another week until you’ll hear from me, and a $2 payment to them to email you my response. I’d like to pay just 25 cents an email if you add me on my jail email system. Only message me on this page if you don’t have the money to add me on CorrLinks, but leave a phone # or address where I can reach you. And like I said at the beginning of my profile, there’s no shortcut to happiness. I pay 25 cents for every message I send you, so please, if you want to be my pen-pal anything that is worth pursuing is going to require just a little bit of inconvenience in order to make it work.
I look forward to see your name soon.