I was sitting back at work when a comrade brought up the topic of this web service. I’m the photographer; he needed me to give him a decent shot for his girl … Valentine’s Day.
“You need to check it out … telling you – you gon strike”, he believed. “You got the look, style, talent … you can’t lose.” People say this often. I just be so focused on my crafts and pending appeal that time for a social life gets put aside. If all goes well, I’ll be back in society this year.
Whole time ‘Tario’ talking, I’m wondering if this service can connect me to a serious female. “I like women that intimidate men”, I disclosed. “You go find you one, slim.” Tario smiling. “My joint bad!” Too optimistic; how he know? “You different”, he added. “You the man in every department …”
Born in Washington Hospital Center: Washington, DC. Mother had the name of both John and Jesus’ mothers. First born alpha male of my family that plays no games. I’m serious about everything I do. Author, mentor, photographer, teacher, father, and owner of No Answers No Rules LLC and Trademark, but I aint complete … Where my partner at? This a humbling inevitable question, but the good thing is … got no ties.
Not gonna hold your world, if you like exclusive things … men, just know it / they aint always colorful, loud, and garrulous. Oftentimes, it’s the humble keen eyed, silent brotha in the background.
“But you gotta tell them what you looking for”, reminds Tario.
“I did”, I thought. “Want a female that’s smart, got some weight on her, and got enough energy to tackle the business world with me”, I explained. “Like that?”
“That’s better”, he said. “See when I first made my bio, it was generic.”
What, he copy somebody shit?, I was wondering. Wouldn’t be farfetched; originality and sincerity have become mythical.
I took pictures for the whole yard – pretty much – and half of em got their G.E.D. through me. In the course of this exchange, we dialogue and the country opens up for me. This is why I’m open for any female. I got my preferences, but this aint no dating site.
What you see is what you get with me. Got no diseases, all my teeth, minimal tattoos, high I.Q., common sense, and enough mental fortitude to put my own concerns aside to mentor others. I believe we all are perfect, we just pick up vices that chip away at us. One of mine is hesitation, and part of my life journey has been geared to addressing this.
If you are interested in knowing more, post your email address or phone number. I’m formally known as James EL. My family calls me Arnez. My appeal motion is siting on the judge’s desk as you read this; don’t let my sentence discourage you. It aint stop me.
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