SIZE MATTERS!!!

Stephen D'Andrea

When size matters I'm the guy you've been looking for.
It's both BIG and BEAUTIFUL.
What's even more amazing is I know how to use it. I'll put it on you.

Yep, when size truly matters
I've got the biggest HEART around.

Hi, my name is Stephen. I hope I’ve grabbed your attention and made you laugh. The truth is I really do have a big heart. I’m genuine, caring, open-minded, honest, and compassionate. My favorite things in life are laughing, dancing, drawing, reading, intelligent conversation, and staying fit.

Currently my goal is to meet new people who are willing to share their thoughts, stories, and perspectives on life. Let’s share some laughs, get to know each other, and challenge each other’s mind. If you can be a friend, teacher, or mentor I’d love to hear from you.

A MILLION LITTLE PIECES…

The Young Man came to the Old Man seeking counsel.
“I broke something, Old Man.”
“How badly is it broken?”
“It is in a million pieces.”
“I’m afraid I can’t help you.”
“Why?”
“There’s nothing you can do.”
“Why?”
“It can’t be fixed.”
“Why?”
“It’s broken beyond repair. It’s in a million little pieces.”
(Author: James Fry)

I pose this question: “At what point is a person broken beyond repair?” The first nine years of my incarceration I sought refuge in every negative aspect of prison life. Then, one day, reality hit me; I was broken into a million pieces and repairs were mandatory… And so the journey began.

Over the past four and a half years endless wisdom has been shared with me by worthy people who have mended their own broken pieces. I’m now part of a cognitive and behavioral modification program known as the Therapeutic Community. Through this program I’ve been confronting my past propensity for violence, victims awareness, the emotional scaring of my childhood, and the general brutality of the life I’ve lived.

These days I’m really a decent guy who has worked hard to be a man of integrity. People actually come to me for advice and an open ear, because they know I care. I’ve retired the tough guy act and have learned a man can be both strong and compassionate. My non-judgmental personality and inner strength became the high points of my character.

I’m seeking friendships with adventurous, successful, wise, caring, funny, and candid individuals. People who can help me acquire the skills to mend even more of the broken pieces and become an exceptional human being.

For more privacy PLEASE WRITE ME DIRECTLY. If you chose to e-mail be sure to leave a return street address.

I’m looking forward to your letter. I'll see you at mail call.

With warm wishes,
Stephen