Anthony Coffer

Ladies, treading the scorched sands of this concrete and steel wilderness, I’ve ignored potential waters, waters which might give quenching relief. This wilderness, this prison I’ve trekked for five years, while avoiding the waters, such as classifieds, web sites, pen-pals, etc. The waters I’ve long believed mirages, illusions, a waste of time.

However, no longer do I choose to struggle against my thirst for the quenching sweetness of companionship. As you take your chances by visiting this web site, I now bare myself in this ironclad desert I’ve matured and have some to appreciate much of what once I did not. I hope you appreciate my stating plainly what I want: My ultimate goal is a strong relationship. I want to share significance and substance. I want legit and open communication, I want my ideas and expressions to be valued. I want genuine caring and consideration… I want you to want, expect, and command the same of me. Clearly, these things can only be achieved on a solid foundation. Well out foundation is first, knowing what we want, and second stating it plainly.

Here we begin, I’m 26, 6’3”, 200 lbs., from Northern California. Know that your race does not factor in any of this. Neither does your age or looks. Your grounding and maturity is key. Let’s hope you and I aren’t disheartened by past disappointments to the point that all is blurred and we miss out on accomplishing what we began this whole thing for, in the first place. We can avoid mirages and illusions, as long as we know what we want and recognize it when we are staring right at it. Hope to hear from you.